By Laurie Lindenbaum

This past weekend I attended an event. But not just any event – my only brother’s wedding. While hundreds of people all came together to eat, dance and celebrate, I started thinking about how PR plays a role in all aspects of our lives, even some of our most personal events, such as weddings.
Having planned many client events – from one-on-one media briefings to public events at New York City’s Grand Central Terminal – I am well aware of all the details that go into planning an event, from finding the perfect venue, to determining the menu, to writing speeches and presentations – as well as the benefit of having events. We usually spend months planning an event, to make sure no stone is left unturned.
While I didn’t play an active role in planning the wedding, I listened to stories, and added thoughts, when appropriate, based on my event planning experiences. While the wedding was perfect, I saw things from a different perspective – after all, I was a guest, not a planner. And after all, I am a PR person.
The vendors no longer had to impress the hosts of the event, they now wanted to impress the guests, since any guest could be a potential customer. They rely on our word-of-mouth, to tell our friends and family that everyone danced the night away since the band was so terrific, that the flowers were gorgeous, and the bridal party so tastefully attired. Every detail had to speak for itself, and be memorable.
And let’s not forget, since we now live in a world of social media, this information could have been tweeted out and posted on Facebook before we even ate the wedding cake.
The bottom line, no matter where we go or what we do, we are spreading the word about products and services, enabling someone else to benefit from our experiences, and giving them something to talk about.